Notes from a slow practice.
Essays, conversations and field notes. Written between sessions, when something asks to be put down in words.
- EssayMarch 20269 min
The architecture of safety
Before any conversation about who is right, the nervous system asks a quieter question. Notes on the somatic ground beneath intimacy.
Read · coming soon - ConversationFebruary 202622 min · audio
On staying - a dialogue between us
Talib and Shubhaa talk about the early years of their own practice, and what they have learned about returning when it would be easier to leave.
Read · coming soon - Field noteJanuary 20266 min
The repair sequence we teach
A small choreography of three movements. Not a script, a rhythm couples can return to when the thread has broken.
Read · coming soon - EssayDecember 202511 min
Why we don't fix relationships
Most popular relationship advice assumes a problem to solve. We work from a different premise. A note on the difference.
Read · coming soon - Field noteNovember 20254 min
The room before the room
What we ask couples to do in the ten minutes before a session, and why it matters more than the session itself.
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