Notes from a slow practice.
Essays, conversations and field notes. Written between sessions, when something asks to be put down in words.
- EssayJune 1, 20269 min
The Architecture of Presence
How technology quietly reshapes intimacy. Notes on presence, the nervous system, and the invisible language of attention.
Read · 9 min - EssayJuly 1, 202611 min
The Architecture of Safety
Before any conversation about who is right, the nervous system asks a quieter question. Notes on the somatic ground beneath intimacy.
Read · 11 min - EssayAugust 1, 202610 min
The Circulation of Love — Why learning to receive may be one of the deepest practices of intimacy
There is a quiet longing to be seen. Notes on recognition, the courage to receive, and how love begins to circulate between two people.
Read · coming soon - ConversationSeptember 1, 202622 min · audio
On staying - a dialogue between us
Talib and Shubhaa talk about the early years of their own practice, and what they have learned about returning when it would be easier to leave.
Read · coming soon - Field noteOctober 1, 20266 min
The repair sequence we teach
A small choreography of three movements. Not a script, a rhythm couples can return to when the thread has broken.
Read · coming soon - EssayNovember 1, 202611 min
Why we don't fix relationships
Most popular relationship advice assumes a problem to solve. We work from a different premise. A note on the difference.
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